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Friday, September 4, 2009

More tears please...

These are happier tears this time with the day 2 story. First I will make you cry, but then I have a good laugh for you as well (hang in there Kenz:) Take a look at this face below. Really look at his smile. There is so much joy. And above all, this little guy is bursting at the seams with LOVE. I never really understood why people question whether or not they are going to have enough love for a second child after they pour so much into the first. Well, I can assure you that any doubt that you have in your mind is washed out when your heart is filled from the sibling love. There is no prouder moment than witnessing that overwhelming love that a child has for their sibling. When they get excited to be with them every moment of the day. When they get protective of them. Or when they have moments like this....Tré came home yesterday and told me that the day was awesome. Then he paused...he said with a shy smirk, "but almost cried again". Jalena asked why before I could. The conversation went like this...
"Jalena, do you remember when we saw each other at recess. Well, when the bell rang and I knew that you had to leave I felt the burning in my throat because I wanted to cry." She asked why..."I guess it is because I love you so much that I didn't want you to go, I wanted to go with you." Later he was telling Jake and I about it again and he elaborated. He said that he was scared for her. He was worried that she would get scared or feel like crying and he wanted to be there for her. So he got over his own moment of fear the day before...but then he put the same fears into someone else's life and took on the emotions again. I am so thankful for all the love lessons in my life and I am proud that my kids have a safe place to process their emotions. I told them that they are lucky in love and that they should be proud of loving so fully. I told Tré that he has to be careful/conscience of putting emotions on others and worrying about how they might feel. He doesn't get it quite yet because he doesn't have control of his compassion...and that is probably what makes him so great and full of lessons for us to learn.

Just in case a few of you are crying (Mom:), here is another favorite moment of the week. I was working on the computer and I could hear the kids plotting in Jalena's room right next door. They came flying into the studio and thank goodness the camera was on my desk and ready to go to capture this greatness! SUPER UNDIES!!!!!
I'd like to say that this is the first time that my kids have done this, but I can't:) I will say that the little princess below was the first to ever attempt such a thing. I think she as about 4 when she first tried it and the boys thought it was genius. I know your kids have done this as well...go get the dang camera out and capture your own memories. Don't them slip away.

6 comments:

Aaron Galeotti Photography said...

Holy shit balls Kathy! sometimes i think you just make this stuff up just for me. I can totally identify with this having too much compassion!! caring and worrying too much about others! YOU...! you are good :)

Aaron Galeotti Photography said...

and i totally did the underwear on my head as a kid! =)

Kelly said...

Oh, I love this. I deeply hope that my kiddos have the same love and compasion for each other. THAT is success in parenting. The best thing you can teach your kids is humility and siblings can do just that. Thank you for the inspiration!

Erin said...

Super undies.... amazing. And that Tré of yours is indeed one of the most compassionate kids I have ever met. I love that about him. :)

Amy said...

I loved these prints....some of my fave of your kids! This is a reminder that we need to have the faith of a child everyday! They rule...seriously, kids freakin rule! Love them!

Kenz said...

Seriously! The underwear didn't help! That is so sweet. I know this love that you can have for your siblings and I know how sweet Tre is so....again with the crying!